Reader-submitted columns on therapy, healing, and the small moments that change everything. Anonymous if you'd like — always reviewed personally by Shailja before it goes live.
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Honest writing from people who chose to share. Reviewed and published by Shailja Agarwal.
For years, I felt like my mind was constantly running on a treadmill that I couldn't stop. Every thought was a "what if" followed by a worst-case scenario. It wasn't until I started setting small boundaries every day that the noise began to quiet down.
I realized that saying "no" wasn't selfish; it was a survival mechanism. To anyone else out there feeling completely overwhelmed: it gets better when you give yourself permission to step back.
I didn't realize how much of my adult life was being steered by a scared 8-year-old version of myself. I constantly engaged in people-pleasing because, as a child, that was the only way I felt safe.
Learning to sit with those feelings and reparent myself changed everything about how I relate to others. It is terrifying at first to look inward, but nothing is more freeing than finally becoming the adult you needed when you were younger.
